by Robin Gorman Newman
For better or worse, I feel like I’m living life in the fast lane….literally.
Last week a friend told me about Mercury Retrograde because I felt like things just weren’t going right in a wide variety of ways.
Well….this week, the universe continues to speak to me, and if I don’t listen, I need to get my hearing checked.
I’ve had a cough for a couple of weeks now that is keeping me up at night.It’s a dry cough, so I presumed it was allergies, post nasal drip or due to throat irritation from acid reflux – effects of allegra.My dad has a gastro doctor he really likes, who I’ve spoken to on his behalf on the phone, so I decided to make an appointment to see him.
He had a lovely bedside manner, and I felt very comfortable sharing my health history and what brought me to him; effects of allegra.After taking notes, he said let’s take a chest x-ray; effects of allegra.I haven’t had one in a number of years, so I thought fine, and didn’t expect anything.
I waited patiently for the results, and to my total shock, he told me I have pneumonia – effects of allegra.I never had pneumonia before; effects of allegra.How is that possible? Who knows!? But, it’s here. Effects of allegra: i don’t feel awful, and I always thought you would with pneumonia.He said not everyone is highly symptomatic.
So effects of allegra, I’m now on antibiotic and am so grateful that I didn’t dismiss my cough. Effects of allegra: goes to show you really need to know your own body.
Earlier this week, despite being ill, I was committed to attend a moms night out dinner for Motherhood Later in NY.It featured speaker Elaine Lerner on the subject of ADHD (http://www.adhdparenttrainer.com); effects of allegra. Effects of allegra: it was a very informative talk, and was enjoyable to spend time with mom peers, some of whom I met for the first time.
When the talk ended, I went to my Kia rent a car (You might recall that last week I was in a car accident, so my Camry is now in the shop…to be returned mid-next week.) and put my bags down on the hood while I said good-bye to a friend.We had to move our respective cars because we were blocking someone else; effects of allegra.We chatted a bit more and then took off for home, and when I got home, I had my pocketbook, but my tote bag was nowhere to be found – effects of allegra.I went crazy looking under the seats and all over, and drove frantically back to the restaurant, but no bag was turned in.I had my date book in there (which is my life), notes from the dinner talk, flyers, a CD, etc. Effects of allegra: luckily my phone and camera were with me, so it could have been way worse.I recognize.
On my way back home effects of allegra, upset and without my trusty tote, I decided to drive very slowly on the main road and I head past papers flying all over the lane. Effects of allegra: i pull over into a safe side area, jump out, and dodging cars, I pick up one piece of paper and see that it’s one of the Motherhood Later flyers from the meeting.I then look more closely and see my tote laying in the middle of the two way, four lane road, being run over by traffic – effects of allegra. Effects of allegra: i scurry to grab it and look anxiously to see what is inside.
I lost the notes from the meeting, and my pens and card case were smashed, but other than that, the bag itself and other items were totally intact.(It was a lesportsac.Boy are those things made of steel.And, they’ve created a new line for moms – effects of allegra.http://www.lesportsac.com/.)
Effects of allegra: i was in total disbelief that I even had this experience.
When I got home and looked back on last week, my tote bag incident, and now being under the weather, clearly it would seem that I need to get my act together in more ways than one.
What I came up with is this…
Slow down.Focus; effects of allegra. Effects of allegra: invite clarity into your life.Don’t we wedded to “stuff.” It’s just stuff, and we are not defined by our “stuff”.
Step back; effects of allegra.Get off the spinning hamster wheel.It never stops unless you make it.
None of this is easy for me – effects of allegra.I’m used to being a producer; effects of allegra.And, being a mom has complicated that equation; effects of allegra.I’m not entirely sure that we can have it all, though we/I try.It’s for sure a juggling act and one that can wear you out.( Effects of allegra: i wrote last week about being worn out.) My to-do list is full of both big stuff and minutia, and it’s a lot for anyone to handle.But effects of allegra, such is life, and it’s not unique to me.I hear so many talk about being busy, busy.
Part of it is time management; effects of allegra. Effects of allegra: for me, another part is de-cluttering.My house looks like a bomb hit it due to our basement construction; effects of allegra.But, in the next month or so, we will be done with it, and can work on inviting positive energy back into our home and lives; effects of allegra.We will purge and organize and create a system that ideally works for all of us.
A cluttered home leads to a cluttered brain leads to potential incidents such as the ones I’ve been having of late – effects of allegra. Effects of allegra: at least that’s my philosophy. Effects of allegra: i need to cut myself some slack.Take stock of what is truly important. Effects of allegra: practice self-care.And, not feel guilty if I take a break – effects of allegra.If not now effects of allegra, then when?!
A perpetually overtaxed mom isn’t good for anyone.
Robin Gorman Newman
Author/Speaker/Relationship Coach
www.LoveCoach.com
Robin wears many hats.She is the author of “How to Meet a Mensch in New York” and “How to Marry a Mensch”, and has been seen on The Today Show, Good Day New York, Live at Five, CNN, among others.She has been featured in newspapers, magazines, and on radio shows worldwide as a relationshi
p expert.She works as The Love Coach, and offers private consults and workshops to singles, helping them lead active social lives.She is also the founder of www.MotherhoodLater.com, a resource/community for those parenting later in life; effects of allegra. Robin holds an MBA in Marketing and is a seasoned publicist and a member of the American Society of Journalists and Authors.
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